About | The We

Our Mission

We founded The We University to provide the intellectual and emotional architecture necessary for a conscious, mature partnership. Our mission is to transform the way we understand love through the lens of nervous-system awareness and relational intelligence.

The Architects of The We

Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros founded The We University as a response to the emotional complexity of modern life. Their work is grounded in the intersection of clinical research and lived experience, providing a framework for intentional partnership.

Emilia Smith

Emilia is a relationship educator and the co-host of The Conscious Couples Podcast. She specializes in the science of attachment and the practical application of nervous-system regulation in everyday life. Her work is defined by a commitment to clarity and mutual accountability.

Alan Lazaros

Alan is a relationship educator and the co-host of The Conscious Couples Podcast. He brings a deep understanding of relational intelligence and the architecture of partnership. His approach is rooted in psychological precision and a heart-led commitment to growth.